"But I do want to say that it takes a heck of a man to face his own past behavior and mistakes, acknowledge the root of the problem and embrace change."
All well and good Thatgirl...
I wonder if his W plans on doing the same.
"I was simply offering him a glimpse into his W's perspective because I could identify so much with her in the scope of the conversation he replayed for us."
I get it Thatgirl.
But you fail to mention, as do most of the posters, that Denver also has a "perspective". And can you relate to HIS difficulties in the M.
She cheated!
Bottom line!!!
If you cheated on a test would you blame the teacher?
There is NO justification!!!
NO cause!!!
NO excuse!!!
NO reason!!!
She can divorce Denver and do what she wants.
BUT THEY ARE M!!!!!
Sorry to hijack Denver. But I'm so sick and tired of us men being the CAUSE of our spouses unhappiness.
She CHOOSE to have an A!!!
IT'S WRONG!!! BOTTOM LINE!!!
SBH - OUT!!!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012
