I just wanted to point out that none of us here condone Denver's W's actions or think that physical intercourse with another person is equal to Denver's past behavior in his M. Nor did anyone, I think, say that Denver's W was perfect or hadn't made mistakes. Ultimately, Denver knows the truth of the cause and effect of his actions and I think he's firmly established what his boundaries are.
I was simply offering him a glimpse into his W's perspective because I could identify so much with her in the scope of the conversation he replayed for us.
But I do want to say that it takes a heck of a man to face his own past behavior and mistakes, acknowledge the root of the problem and embrace change.
And I APPRECIATE it more than I can ever say in words TG. Thank you again.
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
