It's ironic that some LBS comment negatively on moving to an apt, while others are negative about staying in the house and keeping up the mortgage, housecare etc.
I am actually happy that I kept the kids, house, cat, dog and bird. Well...maybe not the parrot when it makes a lot of noise. For a while it felt like I was living in a shrine of memories, but not now. Even sleeping in "our" bed in "our" room doesn't feel like that anymore. It's a lot of work looking after the house, yard etc on my own, but I still have plenty of free time. I must - I post here a lot.
