Forgive or else...what?

[25yearsmlc]

for ME,

it's a paradox. On one hand, we always have to DB, you know?

OTOH,

if my h pulled another weird "MLC" phase on me, I'm sorry.


I can only handle ONE MAJOR marital crisis, not to mention the years in that crap. Now that I know I can make it on my own


and the terror of being left is gone, and the upsides of being single are known to me



my marriage is only going to work if we're both in it. We seem to be.

For me, the DB WORK part, where you're wounded and suffering,

is a once in a life time deal...I've already thought it out and I think that I could forgive him BUT



it empowers me to know, that I will NEVER go thru something like that again...


but that's just me