I just wanted to point out that none of us here condone Denver's W's actions or think that physical intercourse with another person is equal to Denver's past behavior in his M. Nor did anyone, I think, say that Denver's W was perfect or hadn't made mistakes. Ultimately, Denver knows the truth of the cause and effect of his actions and I think he's firmly established what his boundaries are.

I was simply offering him a glimpse into his W's perspective because I could identify so much with her in the scope of the conversation he replayed for us.

But I do want to say that it takes a heck of a man to face his own past behavior and mistakes, acknowledge the root of the problem and embrace change.

Me: 33, H: 32
M: 12 years T: 13 years
No kids
D-Day: 7/2009
Separated: 10/12/10
Future Unknown
GITS

"There's a fire starting in my heart, reaching a fever pitch and it's bringing me out the dark." - Adele