Ok Denver, I've followed your post and good 'ol SBH is going to play devils advocate (love that movie)...
I do not understand all this empathy for bad behavior. I'm sorry! I don't! Your W committed adultry! Sorry but going to a strip club and looking at porn is not the same as physical intercourse with another person. I can't imagine your pain. I am so sorry for your hurt. But how many times are we as LBS's supposed to get kicked in the BA!!s and get back up.
"ILUBINILWU" - Kick in the BA!!s "I'm leaving you" - Kick in tbe BA!!s "I am having an EA" - Kick in the BA!!s "I am f'ing someone else" - Kick in the BA!!s
REALLY???????
I get it Denver, you made mistakes in your relationship. SO DID SHE!!! 1+1=2 Denver. Two people made mistakes. you AND YOUR WIFE!!!
Look, I'm all for saving Marriages and I hope you save yours because it's what YOU want.
But I'm not going to sugarcoat this ultimate betrayal.
SHE IS WRONG! SHES WRONG TODAY AND TOMORROW. SHE WILL ALWAYS BE WRONG FOR CHEATING.
I know that I am going against the grain here and that's ok with me...
Respect your W? Maybe I can understand what she did.... But respect her? NOPE!
Good luck Denver. I truly wish you the best. And I hope you get whatever it is you ultimately want.
