I found myself getting angry reading your posts because IMO it seems as though she is taunting you. Going to bed in just a night shirt and pulling it up so you can see she isn't wearing underwear? That's just B.S.
I can't imagine how much it hurts to hear your W say she loves you, but will leave you if OM leaves his wife and wants her. That isn't love and she's fooling herself if she thinks it's going to end with the 2 of them riding off into the sunset.
Keep GAL for yourself and work on you. Honestly she is a fool from walking away from you.
"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack." ¤Formerly DelinquentGurl¤