couple things, not 2 x 4's but observations, and some questions...
Don't post about hiding assets from your w for the divorce settlement (like pending bonuses). It is frowned upon by the courts and will bite you in the a$$ if it gets out. Many feel it's dishonest/unethical.
Why'd you "disown" your entire extended family? Geez...and when your sister approached you, why did she? Did it even cross your mind to allow her back into your life?
Why not treat your w's birthday as an opportunity for a 180 and NOT contact her? Or if you MUST...send a text saying "happy birthday"...
She's with OM now and isn't making moves toward you or expressing confusion. If you've quit, you've quit.
It's okay if you haven't quit, but if you have, it's odd to hold on like this. And I notice a pattern of holding on...to grudges, old slights, her, pain...
Here's my final question. Have you ever been deeply hurt by someone, and then forgiven them?
You don't have to answer here, but maybe think about it.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
