Originally Posted By: Spellfire Ah its a shame you needed to talk to her when she shut down your phone. Her ability to keep reeling you back in is working against you.
It happened.
And I am going to disgree spellfire.
With this kind of language. Sorry.
It doesn't help Denver. Instead makes him feel like a piece of sh!t. IMO the man is taking too many of those arrows already.
From his wife.
With what kind of language? Because I used the word shame (and you bold it) in the context of "its a shame"? How is this an arrow at Denver? I am certainly not implying he should be ashamed of anything.
What I am saying is that she is being manipulative because after calling him and being abusive towards him for not answering, she finally took it a step further and shut it off. Clearly he needed that phone and she knew it, I was merely saying it was a "shame" (is there a less offensive word I might use here?) that he depends on that phone and needs it active. It was nothing to do with placing shame on him.
I am on Denver's side in this, honestly. I am not gunning for him.
The second thing of mine you quoted is MY SIGNATURE and not directed at Denver's specific sitch at all. It is a quote from Strong & Alive, someone who helped me a great deal in resolving my personal situation.
Denver, sorry for spamming up your thread. I felt called out for my view and wanted to make it clear that I am behind you all the way. Wasn't even intended as a 2x4.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
