Ironic that I mentioned in previous post that I have disowned my extended family. I have one sister that I have had virtually no contact with in almost 12 years. She was the first one I eliminated from my life. Today, she showed up at my work! It was brief, but I made it clear I still want nothing to do with her. I handled it well.
I told S17 and a friend to guess the least likely person to visit me at work. S17 said "OM". I replied "ok..second least likely". Just hearing his name upsets me, but I didn't show it. I guess my kids know just how much I dislike the man. I hope that's not a bad thing. It's not like I bad mouth him or anything. We rarely say his name in our house, so it comes up rarely.
Obviously with both kids working with STBX and OM, they see him more than I would like. But, he will never replace me as their Dad, so it's really not a big deal.
