Weekend is shaking out OK. Had to tell four guys that the running race company doesn't want new people for this race. But I am good. We'll see about the future. The next one isn't until mid-August, but at least I can count on this $525.
Email back from the L. I asked him, since I wouldn't be there, what a prove-up hearing is like.
He said STBXW will have to testify why the settlement is fair, why she's waiving spousal support and to establish irreconcilable differences.
It's actually better that she go because I'm not sure what I'd say about the irreconcilable differences. Part of me would like to be there to hear what she has to say. It's good that I'll be out of town working so I didn't have to make that choice.
By this time tomorrow night I'll be officially single.
This whole way I clung to success stories. The last one that bites the dust is one I heard back in June 2009. A neighbor of a friend I was living with invited me over to a cookout. He heard my sad story and told me his wife filed for divorce on him. They spent $20k fighting over custody and all that was left was the final hearing and she went to court and told the judge she didn't want to go through with it.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
