I'm confused. I thought he'd been dragging his feet for years and living apart from you for a long time....and wanted a divorce years ago but you db'd and saved it (and then wondered if you should have)...
So what's going on that you were "waiting around" for him last week and then now you are doing what? I mean, what are the issues other than property settlement stuff?
You want him to be different than he has been for a LONG time (or ever)?
This isn't a 2 x 4 but I just thought I knew your sitch...maybe I missed something.
Did I?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016