I don't know where to start. I'm 41 my wife is 33 we've been together for 10 years and married for soon to be 7 in July. We have 3 girls ages 11, 8 and 3. The 11 year old is my step daughter.
In September of 2010 i found out my wife was texting another man. It wasn't the first time that this sort of thing had happened so i decided to lock her out of the house because i wanted answers and thought i deserved answers. From that point on everything went south. She would hang out with this OM with my kids doing things that i should of been doing with them.
It's been up and down every since and for right now i don't have the time to fill in everything just yet. My wife has stated several times that she wants a divorce and then at other times she'll say she wants to seperate. Well the seperation came to fruition this past Tuesdat 6/7/11. I'm at work right now but i will post again and fill in the blanks. I just wanted to get my post started because i've been reading thru some other peoples posts and situations and see so many similarities. Also some great people with awesome insight into things. I hope to learn some things and hopefully get out of this "dark" stage in my life.
