It sounds to me like, for some reason, you two just don't like the fact that I've resigned myself to this and pretty much moved on mentally. I would say, given the fact that I've done everything that I think can be done, I'm, well, done unless she changes her mind.
So given her refusal to seriously engage me and this marriage in more than a superficial way for many years now, what specifically do you think can be done in the context of a DB mindset. Feel free to ask any questions for more info and I'll be happy to share as honestly as I can.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'
