That's why this forum is so great. Thanks ttt, tough and 25 for your constructive feedback, without everyone here I would clearly be going down wrong paths, even with the books.

Me - 37
W - 38
D - 14
S - 12
Together - 16
Married - 12
Bomb - April 13, 2011
W moved out - May 13, 2011

The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more