Hey Sparks, sorry I haven't been by to comment lately.

I agree with GB, she's torn and confused. It would be hard to go completely dark with a small child, but minimizing interactions might help. It also helps you regain some focus on yourself.

Oh, Happy Birthday! Make the best of your day!

Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011