Her issues with ml run pretty deep. I've been trying to imply it but she had an ex that used to physically force her. We have discussed that this is the main reason why she is so adamant in being in control of when we ml. It's quite frustrating, I've been thinking of getting SSM for us to read. I know that really she needs to see someone for this, and I tried bringing it up and she refuses.
I know for sure it's a bad idea to push too much when it's that time of the month so I'm trying to give positive love. If things don't get better soon it's time to go back to tough love.