Not to sound too Polly-Anna here, but the future is written in smoke.
Meaning who is to say what will happen.
Despite my parents best efforts telling me the stove was hot, I got that cool a$$ multiple ring burn on my right hand as a kid. And then I knew what HOT was.
And now you do too.
I also feel that our first attempt was nothing more than to allow her to say she tried. With an eye toward finding the quickest and fastest excuse to call it off.
Dating?
No recrimation. Nothing like that just a cautionary word, ok?
You are hurt, no matter what you say. Just go slow and easy. I know alot of people here who rush into what seems like a great thing and over look the warning signs that would wave us off if we were...healthier.
Go slowly, you can hurt yourself, and a person who is less deserving than even you.
Don't get me wrong, enjoy it...but make sure your both on the same page. And if you both are? Enjoy it as often as you can.
: )
I hope that you find in time a...reason to post here again.
I think in time...if your heart isn't too hard, you will.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
