I mean, what's stopping you? Is there some OW? If not, are you saying that sex is a "reward" for coming home? But he wants to come home...
You know, I have not read your whole thread so I'll stop for now.
I highly recommend Retrovaille, btw. Excellent.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016