First, it's a very personal matter and no one can tell you what to do. If you can handle it, meaning not feel horrible later, that's key.
I don't know men who go back to women for the great sex they NEVER had.
For my h and I, sex was a strength in our m, and it helped him feel very connected. His LL is physical affection.
I wanted to contrast life here, with what he had in the tundra. So the home was "warm and loving" and sunny, inside and out here.
It's personal and if you can't, you can't.
But if you can, don't feel bad or let someone tell you that you're being used.
The cow analogy is for singles...if ML was a strength in your m, and it's good between you in bed, you are giving him something to miss when he's gone.
Sometimes I think we have to go with what feels natural in the moment & trust. Just my .02. BTW It was my DB coach who said, "there's no one right answer to this".
YOU decide.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
