The question that I need to answer is: Is it okay to have sex with my H, even though we are separated and I am not ready for him to move back in? Is it okay to have sex with my H, even though I am not sure that we will reconcile?
My response to you is not going to be NEARLY as profound as your post was on my thread TG007. For that I apologize.
I'm going to give you the caveman male answer to your question:
NO. Ever heard of the saying... 'never buy the cow if you can get the milk for free'
If not... think about it.
For you it is about the emotional connection... For him? It is about the sex.
Who is likely to get hurt by having sex during your S? YOU.
Who is likely to be drawn closer to you if there is NO sex during S? Yup... Your H.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
