I don't care anything about any legal issues. I owed it to my ex wife to apologize in writing. I wanted to lay out everything I did and what I should have done. I really don't see how this can be used against me in any way. But honestly, I could care less. I can at least forgive myself now for how I was.
And operating from your FEELINGS, instead of from your THOUGHTS, is partially what got you into this mess, Brian.
I'm ALL for forgiveness, and for "owning our own chit" from the marriage. Just do it VERBALLY, and not in writing that can be used against you. You just went through a lawsuit (that's what divorces are) with this woman.
As for "I really don't see how this can be used against me in any way," I suggest you ask your attorney. You're being naive.
