Confused.

Got back very early this morning. W was very civil, perhaps even glad to see me. She had cleaned up the house, which has become a bit unusual over the past year or more. Even left a light on for me.

Came to see me in my room after a few hours sleep. Laid on the bed and asked for details about my trip, gave me a few details about life here while I was gone. Wanted to talk about plans, including movie and dinner tonight, visiting old friends and my mother this weekend, etc., etc.

Then she said we need to discuss 'legal, emotional, financial aspects of our situation', which suggests to me she is intent on moving forward with D. We shall see when that convo happens.

Can a WAW be so friendly and want to spend time together while moving forward with a D? Or is she just confused? I know I am.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012