Hey Islander : Really glad to see you here again.

I literally teard up when I read your wife's post. My allegience is with you I hope you know that but I am starting to feel bad for your W. I dont excuse what she did by having an A but somebody on this board did remind me that she is human like the rest of us. Sounds like she is reaching out a bit however, it is difficult to ascertain what she REALLY wants. Does she simply want foregiveness where she can try and move on, Does she really regret her decisions and want Islander back down the road?

Your guess is as good as mine. Whatever happen, I know that you are going to be allright and the next R you are in , Whether with your W or somebody else, is going to be a great one.

It was a pleasure getting to know you although unfortunate under these circumstances. I wish you all the best and hope that you can check in from time to time just so we can keep in touch a little.

You are a good person Islander, and if you have it in your heart, read her emails a few times more later on when emotion isnt so prevelant and see if there are things you can understand and possibly forgive.

Take care.

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11