Time to stop the negative talk and move on. Life is different but also better in many ways after divorce. Looking back, staying in that marriage was wrong. You will see the same.
I think we ALL miss what we had in the sense of living under the same roofs with our kids...the family structure...the support system. When you look back, the relationships were TRULY unhealthy and many of us here (not all) are trying to save unhealthy codependent relationships mostly out of fear.
Stay strong. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
