Got cut off..she pounces when I defend self..so essentially, this and the above correspondence is when i decided to go dark. She has emailed twice this week about the kids for the weekend and I have once in the first week of going dark. Can't beloeve how fast, heavy, and hard this all came down. From Feb. to April, counseling, sep. D bomb! Like a lot of peole on here wonder, when LRT is in affect, how can spouse see changes when they don't really see you much??