Thanks Faith- Yep, must stay with the LRT. Any suggestions with staying dark eevn though I have four kids? Seems more difficult because we communicate albeit, briefly, to exchange, confirm times/logistics, etc.
Counseling seemed to always come back to "my stuff" never hers and the counselor would side with her, or belittle my points. I "got" she wants me to "make love to her during the day" so she feels more emotionally secure. Her walls went up in March and just won't allow me in, which is hard to take. Tried, the acts of kindness, commuinicating..allowing her to be "heard" it seems when I
