Whilst this probably goes against db as r talk, w has never really told me why she left, only that she was unhappy, felt at times I talked down to her and that SHE had been a bit*h to ME.
My thinking is that I can not validate anything to her as she hasn't explained in detail why.... or I can not look inwards. I offered some reasons right at the start where I felt I had gone wrong to w, like not showing enough affection, not doing little things like putting x an the end of a text, not spending time with her, but I felt at the start that this was my reaction to being treated so poorly by the person closest to me (little did I know then!!!! and that w treating me like that was a vicious circle, i.e. me reacting to w in a negative way then w reacting to me and me then reacting back etc etc etc) I have since realised more, but these were things with me (like not looking after me, waiting for w to change and treat me better when I should have done that myself, not being so down and sad because of how W was treating me, and should of gal earlier)
Is this a big no no?
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more
