I'm already ahead of you on the giving her space thing. I'm trying to hold back a lot. Taking a lot of the focus off her.

My big issue, as it has always been, is that the lack of affection/closeness from W could have real negative impact for me. I mean it's great that she will get all this time, but it doesn't come without a cost.

How did you deal with what was essentially a rejection by your H?

I think she knows this a bit already from some of the things she's told me. But it doesn't change things. I guess the shoe is on the other foot now



The time will tell thing was a joke. I thought you did comedy ;-) And don't tell me that wasn't comedy.


Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Jean Jacques Rousseau.