I didn't have to learn this lesson the hard way... I actually recalled some friends of my parents and their dilemma that resulted from the same sitch and decided at the age of 14 that I would always have a life (even if it is, at times, pathetic).
Yes, I think this is exactly what Michelle refers to in her books about being the person our spouse fell in love with... in this case, that advice should be directed to Mr. Wonderful. Frankly, it was tiring to be his social director...
So what will go on your list too?
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
