meant as reassurance from her


means she is trying to compensate for your hurt and she knows your fears are mounting and you might panic or get clingy


so she reassures you this is temporary and will heal you...[color:#FF0000]at a minimum, she needs a time out. Give it to her if she still needs it after You db big time til August..../color]


That's the best case scenario so go with it. Give her as much space NOW as possible by NOT noticing every single thing she says/does/looks at, etc....


"time will tell" no I am not quoting someone else. Saying time will tell b/c she needs time...

Remember to focus on what you are looking forward to. You want HER to wonder about what's going on with You and NOT feel as if she has to keep on reassuring YOU....

No, we want HER to think "Harrier is not clingy to me now.. oh good, I can breathe...but wait....what's up with HIM???"


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change