Harrier

[25yearsmlc]

hello

I am learning to trust. Why? I have no choice really. If I can't trust her again - in all respects - then I might as well quit now.

100% true. BINGO ^^^^^



Initially we talked about July 1, but I think August 1 might be more realistic. The place I found is within walking distance of our house. My Wife loves that idea.

I really have to trust her on this as she thinks it will let us heal.

My W is really confusing me on this. Her words and actions don't match up with someone who wants me not to live with her.

I guess my only goals is to keep doing what I'm doing (and she did comment on the last 2 weeks). Show her the changes. And see what happens. Maybe she might decide that living apart isn't such a good thing when it really comes down to it. She will get a taste of what it is like in a couple weeks when I go to Colorado for a family reunion for a week.

Let this summer time while she's still in the same home, provide enough space for her so the "need" for time apart isn't there. That's a big part of what your DBIng efforts have to show.

I guess like 25mlc, I want to show her how things could be.

correct...simple, really.... (I KNOW it's hard, we get it...but it ain't complicated!!)
And don't you see ANY upsides to the time apart?

wouldn't a good 180 be YOU looking forward to that? Maybe you can rent more "manly" films and not worry about leaving the toilet seat up and seeing the upsides...time with the kids and your GAL things and a little mystery now and then....


btw I think her actions are meant as reassurance from her.

Time will tell.