this is something I spent time pondering years ago...here's my take.
The WAS has a lot more to deal with than we do. YES, they do. Seriously, they have to keep wondering if they're right. They have to keep justifying and they have to worry about children if there are any, and what their future Rs will be like or if they'll be ostracized.
They also have to worry about US if they're not sure of their choice, and if they think they've lost us...
They have to cope with the financials and each cut or loss is something that sticks in their craw b/c as much as we felt victimized by their choices, they do too! And it's worse when the costly mistake is your own....
WE, OTOH, have no choice but to make the best of this painful sitch and grow and GAL....
We have no 2nd thoughts or self doubt when it comes to what we did. Sure, we reviewed our errors and owned up to our role in the demise of the m, but then we did the work...SO
NOW, if we are doing our DB work, then we are on course and we don't have to keep looking over our shoulder. ---
they always will.
Make sense?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
