The OM works at my W's hospital 1 day a week and is best friends with the guy she does work for. They are part of the small community of professionals in their area. so they have contact...not as much as they did, but it still does occur . I know my W doesn't tell me about each interaction.
I'm pretty sure the EA is over and has been for months. I'm learning to trust her again.
Snooping brought me a lot of problems - for myself and for the M. Then I met with our MC and he told me a couple things that seemed to click. He identified the times when I'm likely to snoop - When I'm bored, scared, lonely or anxious. he also I need to address this now or it will follow me for all my relationships.
It dawned on me that I need to no snoop not for my W or my M, but for me. I don't want to be that person.
enjoy your trip
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
