I'm struck by a quote from psychiatrist Mark Epstein:
"Isolated in our heads, we yearn for the kind of connection that our own thinking guards against."
I write about increasing connection with my W, yet lacking intimacy. I need to be more aware of how I contribute to this. The conflict centered around sexual dysfunction for a long time, but restoring a sexual act doesn't resolve intimacy problems.
I'm at work, so can't write too long today, but wanted to capture this quote, for further exploration on how I maintain patterns that inhibit intimacy and connection with my W and in my life.
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CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."