Exactly right...I want to build something new and he is working on reconstructing the old!
Put into that context, it's a bit easier to think about...
Tell me more about this compromise idea?
I know that the girls in the elevator were just that...girls in the elevator...I think what's bothering me is that he has given the impression to so many that he is single! It bugs me to no end!!!!! But truth is there is nothing I can do about that, now is there and making myself crazy about it does me more harm than good.......
Being sick definitely takes away my mental sharpness...so I will confine myself as much as possible...
Sunday afternoon I called him and just said how about making some plans for today, would he like to come out to the house? No....too many trips(agreed) I asked how about me coming down there? Well, he wants to work out and do laundry"...okay, how about I come down and we can go to church down there for 5, I'll make us dinner and we can watch the game on later at 8. I could stay and go to work in the morning from there? He said:.."good, sounds like a plan"..... So, that's what I did...I was a little late...(I left his b-day card on the table and went back for it!)...
But I did get to go to church, with him...+ and gave him his birthday present+ made us dinner+ (Salmon) and we watched the Steelers/Ravens game+ also interwatched the Martha Stewart/Larry King Interview...had a good time with that! had a good time in general.... ML+ and Slept well!
He suggested I take the jeep to work with me and then bring it back to him at the end of my work,( I don't pay for parking at my building and this helps him too so he doesn't get a ticket) then I headed back to the house by bus.....
Overall things went well. I got over the feeling that he was doing something with someone in the condo on saturday night. He may have done something...because there was new food in the fridge, like walked to the grocery store, but no one had been there. Going to church was good too...we had a nice chat while we walked back to the condo.
Thanks Pam and Betsey,
I'm going to go get some dinner together, have a bit of an appetite back today.
