Also, I'm not here to rehash the past. I'm here to pull back, calm down, do some very important GAL work where I may fall flat on my face but I want to try and put my energy into that instead of worrying about my marriage. I'm looking for solutions not analysis. Was I analyzing too much? Absolutely! I am stopping and trying very hard to be accepting.
me: 57 H: 54 M: 18 y Affair over on Dday: 6/99 Never split-up but it was a hard road D: 38 GD:18 I forget so I come back here I know these principles are the way to go which ever way it goes!
