IDK LITB, this email doesn't really say anything.

Like I said, I would talk to your L first.

Find out where you stand, and what type of arrangement your L sees as realistic. Get your facts first.

Then, if you chose, you can let your W know your plans before she is contacted by her L.

My 2 pennies.

BITS

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