I do have a question to run by the group. I have been seeing my personal counselor for a bout 3 or 4 weeks now. She doesnt specialize in couples therapy and told me that she would feel beter refering me out to another counselor who does. Now, my W does not want to got MC because in her words will only tell her how to save the M and right now isnt interested. I thought about making an appt. with MC and going (as a way to learn how to interact with W better more positive manor). Then inviting the W to attend with me. If she goes than she goes if she refuses than she just refuses. My reasoning behind this is to possibly show her that I am commited to saving this M . What do you think ?