If someone asks you about being single say something like "I am enjoying getting to know myself again" or "I want to spend some time getting to know myself before I have another R" or "I am not single, I have two beautiful girls who are my focus" or anything else that suites you. Have something prepared so when someone asks you feel confident about being single instead of inadequate. Make being single a choice and a positive instead of a negative so your past hurts don't keep coming back.


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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