My only warning is what you are hearing here a lot. Stop making W take care of you. She is constantly taking care of you and she shouldn't have to. She needs to take care of her because the road ahead for her is going to be very tough. More tough than you can ever imagine because for years she will have moments where she has times of wonder and flash backs of the A so stop making her take care of you and take care of yourself. Then find a way to take care of you.
There are many W's who want to have a job with insurance for more reasons than just D. What if, God forbid, you were to die and she was without health insurance for her and the kids? I understand and it is natural for you to go to the worst case, but she has given you so many good things to look at so stop thinking the worst all the time. Make it a point to everyday write down the best in the day and focus on those all day instead of the negative.
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