LP - I thought my way through this, and yes I want to do it. It's really not a big deal and I am not making it one. I won't say a word about it. It's not an anger thing either. Just a "here ya go" things. There really can't be a backfire. What can she possibly do at this point? Take away my birthday?

Somehow, just doing it is good for me. I have always played nice and been a doormat. So, this little act will be something different for me.

If I thought she would see it as a big thing, I wouldn't do it. She likely will just think it's a bunch of stuff for her that I found. That's it.


50 years old.

Ontario, Canada

Loving Marriage #2 with the perfect person.