STILL here...even after I quit.

[LearningPatience]

BTM,
gotta support the brothers in darkness, but I have to question the thoughts behind giving her the cards. You admit it's to take a little shot at her, but do you *really* want to take out the anger on her? OK, I know you do, human nature, but it's wasted energy on your part. The energy it takes you to have a little revenge is energy that can be used for your own healing and growth.

In other words, do things that are going to bring you *up* rather than her *down*.

I suspect that giving her a small reminder of your marriage may backfire. She's not in the frame of mind for that.

Besides, you aren't going to see her reaction, and half the fun in pranking someone is seeing that reaction

Good luck on the dark!