S3 and I are both still sick. Had to go home from work today as S3 had a very high temp. He's ok now though.
We were supposed to see H. Thankfull that we didn't have to. Still don't feel like seeing him.
I messaged to tell him S3 was sick so best not to see him till the weekend. He was fine with it. I'm sure he has plans with OW.
Received a text from H tonight telling me he called the bank about selling our house. He said that it wouldn't cost that much to break the contract of the home loan. We had originally agreed that we wouldn't sell it till next Feb when the tenants lease expires. But H is insisting that he cannot afford to pay the mortgage even though he just received a massive pay increase. I'm an accountant so I'm quite good with figures and believe me when I say that he can definitely afford it. He just wants to free up his monetary obligations as well as any connections that tie us together. The last thing to do would b to get a divorce as everythig else has been sorted.
Anyway, I replied to his text by saying that I was sorry to hear about his financial difficulties (seriously how many pairs of jeans does one guy need? In the last 2 months he's purchased 6). I also said that I was not in any financial position to help him cover the cost to pay the bank for breaking the loan. However, if this is what he wanted to do then I would not stop him.
He said that we wouldn't have to pay the money unless we sold the house. To which I again replied - if this is what u want to pursue I will not stop you. I won't help you but I won't get in your way
He replied by saying the sale of the house would be beneficial for both of us. It would free him up financially so he could give me money for S3. Then he said "I'm so sorry everything has turned out like this. I never meant for it to happen. I miss you both so much. Take care". To which I replied "everything happens for a reason".
I wondered whether I should have said something nicer. But then realised this is MLC talk. I mean he's trying to cut ties with me. Why should I be nice.
I had a bit of a cry over his "I miss you" text. Built up emotions over the last couple of weeks but I'll get over it.
W - 31 H - 33 Married - 7 years Together - 10 yrs Kids - S 3yrs old Separated - 27/03/11 OW - 10/04/11
