Light, I think we may have laid a heavy load of "Read! Study! Learn! and then get back to us!" on you.
Can't describe it, just that we can sometimes be collectively heavy while putting the rough diamonds before you.
So, here it is in a nutshell. All the resources and links that were posted to you, are absolutely the real deal as far as MLC, divorce-busting, and just plain surviving the impending madness goes.
If you don't read and use them as context / backdrop for your situation, people will challenge you and wonder if you are serious.
That don't mean that you can't throw out what's going on and how it's hitting you while you are going through that reading pile. You absolutely should, it's cathartic and the replies will begin to build your reference plane on the situation.
Best,
Punkt
These are my friends now!
But someday baby... You ain't worry my life anymore
Take away, take away what I don't need, save the good part please. Fade away, fade away.