Any chance when you and your w are closer again (as I think you'll ebb and flow)
that you might do a tiny bit of flirting? Nothing with a certain outcome expected...just letting her know she's attractive (what with all your newly visible muscles and all).
IDK it can come off as pursuit but if you play it right , like you are PLAYING, I think it may be a fun thing.
In fact, try to watch some comedies together. Laughing is a great bonder, and a turn on, and it's an endorphin thing. Geez, what if you had FUN together?
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