If you get a chance, read the article by laura Munson on "Those Aren't Fighting Words"...
It may help you see this in a different way. SOME of it may apply.
GREAT article 25.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
