Dear KermitdFrog, I am where you are, just a little further up the road. Listen to what 25yearsmlc has written. Please remember this: What your H is going through has really very little to do with you. It's mostly about him. If what he's told you stings, then there is likely some truth to his criticisms. These you CAN work on, but you must do it on your own. For now, forget him. Live your life on YOUR terms. Perhaps he will come back, perhaps he won't but at least you'll have built a life that nourishes you, sustains you and you've created your own happiness.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
