I'll try to track down your main thread to see your sitch and if I can advise.
Take care, your forgiveness work with your mom will get better. You might want to try some of Marianne Williamson's work on anger/fear and "return to love" which has some exercises (she doesn't label them that way though, you just get it from her examples) On forgiveness and how to do it.
She's new agey but I got a lot out of her books.
Good luck and keep posting. When you post here and dig deep (the real journey is an inward one) and bravely address our own shortcomings and
work to truly let go of our pain, our lives improve a lot...A LOT and so do the R's...
IDK enough about your h to advise much yet but you can forgive him
and never tell or see him...do you see that?
People have forgiven others who have murdered family members...they don't invite the killers in their home though...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
