No you don't. You do your thing with D2 without her. Let her do her thing with D2 wthout you.
She mentioned not wanting D to have to go to daycare on her birthday.
I am thinking of telling her that I will take a half day off work so she doesn't have to worry about taking the day off of work.
I am thinking 2 things here. 1, it gives me a lot more time with D on her BDay. 2, it basically says to W I will be doing my own thing with D that evening, without actually saying it.
It puts the burden on her if she is thinking something different.
Thoughts?
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